This article is dedicated to all those people who, like me, find the solution to those small things that life puts in front of us in taking some time alone, whether it is minutes or hours.
Sometimes we face challenges in our life that are brought about to see how we react to uncomfortable or ugly situations. In those moments, taking a time to be alone can help. I like to use my bedroom to be alone, but there someone opening the door can interrupt you. Therefore, my favourite place for a private moment is the shower. In my opinion, the shower is not only the place where you take a bath, it is also where you can find yourself and reflect, think, envision your future, and make decisions. Sometimes full privacy is needed to make decisions.
Many of us undergo uncomfortable or bad situations, but we don’t all react the same way. Some give up, play down their importance, or ignore the situation, and don’t realize that this attitude allows for these bad moments to repeat themselves. Therefore, when a negative situation shows up, I invite you to remember it and wait for the right moment to think. Find your inner self and start meditating or reflecting, but always with a positive attitude, knowing that we learn from mistakes and that to lose is to win. Don’t let yourself fall apart over a bad experience or a bad moment.
Take some time alone to think positively, realize what you have learned from the mistake, answer the question “Why me?” and reflect on how to act in order to prevent this from happening again.